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- _0 [( Y$ S% O% @<DIV id=mainNewsContent class="mainNewsContent NewsContent"><TR><TD style="PADDING-TOP: 10px" class=td_24 width="660">女人出轨原因很多,但无论如何,在动心之前要好好想一想:自己拥有的家庭真的不再是你的最爱了吗?你与“他”的外遇是真爱还是寂寞的弥补?不要把错觉当成真爱,否则,你会掉入一个更黑的深渊。 ; Y7 J1 X+ f! }; z
<P> 当今社会,不少婚姻变得十分脆弱,似乎有点不堪一击。两个曾海誓山盟的心爱之人,竟在不经意中“红杏出墙”。男人有外遇还理直气壮,女人也要找出正当的理由,为求心安理得。女人强迫自己相信,自己是为“爱”才跟“他”外遇的。</P>+ X) V4 W/ G3 ?
<P> 因为对现代大多数女性来说,只要因爱出轨就没有关系,为“性”或为其它原因出轨是不可原谅的。女人对婚姻的期望是以感情的满足为准则的,她们渴望被关心及爱护。而在我们的社会教育中,男性是不可以轻易流露感情的,也就是说,男人表达心中的感受并不是一件容易的事。有道是“男儿有泪不轻弹”。男人在感情上不善于沟通是女人最大的失望。所以,不能满足这种渴求,日积月累,这种被忽略的情绪就会爆发。当一位男性在此时对她表现出关心及倾慕时,女人往往会错把感激当成爱而出轨,因为“他”让你觉得自己被重视,有人爱,又回复了美丽、性感。</P>0 t# w4 E. ]" ^: }
<P> 女人与男人体会的是两个完全不同的世界。男人可以把性与爱分得清清楚楚,女人却不能。当女人与伴侣两情相悦时便会有灵肉合一的冲动,日久生情,产生依恋情结。性让女人有爱的错觉。即使女人当初只是为“性”外遇,而不是为“爱”,但只要不断与性伴侣发生关系,这种依恋的情愫便会逐渐滋长,最终使女人认为有“爱”。</P>
8 P' D3 x5 z$ m( i& j% L& ~& K1 X<P> 当一个女人婚姻出现危机时,会如饥似渴地希望找到另一伴侣来填补空虚和惶恐。充满新鲜刺激并且无拘无束的外遇,会令她们仿佛重回少女时代。这时的女性往往分不清是激情还是真爱。</P>* \6 V0 t3 z5 X+ }1 ~- J2 }
<P> 婚姻其实是一种“习惯”,要维持这种“习惯”并使之不能有“惰”性,是一个很难掌握的尺度。在婚姻中“永远拥有”如果不被“熟视无睹”、“无须重视”所取代,那么,婚姻也许会像憧憬的一样美好。无论男人和女人,都要警惕婚姻中的惰性,相互沟通、充满激情才会维系彼此的吸引。 </P><A href="http://www.souod.com/"><FONT color=#810081><搜得健康网,专业健康知识分享,为你健康保驾护航></FONT></A>/ a1 F* Q9 @* J% @) _! ?& k1 V2 y
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