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6 V& M! o6 Q, ?( y$ `3 A<DIV class=mainNewsInfo><SPAN id=mainFontSize><A style="POSITION: relative; CURSOR: hand" title=减小字体 onclick="newasp_fontsize(0,'mainNewsContent')"><IMG border=0 src="/images/1.gif" width=15 height=15><FONT color=#ff6600>减小字体</FONT></A> <A style="POSITION: relative; CURSOR: hand" title=增大字体 onclick="newasp_fontsize(1,'mainNewsContent')"><IMG border=0 src="/images/2.gif" width=15 height=15><FONT color=#ff6600>增大字体</FONT></A> </SPAN>作者:佚名 来源:<A href="http://www.souod.com"><FONT color=#810081>搜得健康网搜集整理</FONT></A> 发布时间:2009-07-14 01:27:46</DIV>
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, H5 ]' C2 T& k0 C: l8 _ Q( m- `) O* O<DIV id=mainNewsContent class="mainNewsContent NewsContent"><TR><TD style="PADDING-TOP: 10px" class=td_24 width="660">女人出轨原因很多,但无论如何,在动心之前要好好想一想:自己拥有的家庭真的不再是你的最爱了吗?你与“他”的外遇是真爱还是寂寞的弥补?不要把错觉当成真爱,否则,你会掉入一个更黑的深渊。
0 T* c1 Y6 ?9 T, d1 s<P> 当今社会,不少婚姻变得十分脆弱,似乎有点不堪一击。两个曾海誓山盟的心爱之人,竟在不经意中“红杏出墙”。男人有外遇还理直气壮,女人也要找出正当的理由,为求心安理得。女人强迫自己相信,自己是为“爱”才跟“他”外遇的。</P>
0 w; O/ \1 T) n: E0 M4 R$ w6 o" x<P> 因为对现代大多数女性来说,只要因爱出轨就没有关系,为“性”或为其它原因出轨是不可原谅的。女人对婚姻的期望是以感情的满足为准则的,她们渴望被关心及爱护。而在我们的社会教育中,男性是不可以轻易流露感情的,也就是说,男人表达心中的感受并不是一件容易的事。有道是“男儿有泪不轻弹”。男人在感情上不善于沟通是女人最大的失望。所以,不能满足这种渴求,日积月累,这种被忽略的情绪就会爆发。当一位男性在此时对她表现出关心及倾慕时,女人往往会错把感激当成爱而出轨,因为“他”让你觉得自己被重视,有人爱,又回复了美丽、性感。</P>
. Y- d6 Z0 Z# }3 ~. n4 Y<P> 女人与男人体会的是两个完全不同的世界。男人可以把性与爱分得清清楚楚,女人却不能。当女人与伴侣两情相悦时便会有灵肉合一的冲动,日久生情,产生依恋情结。性让女人有爱的错觉。即使女人当初只是为“性”外遇,而不是为“爱”,但只要不断与性伴侣发生关系,这种依恋的情愫便会逐渐滋长,最终使女人认为有“爱”。</P>
; `! b& |- ]" w<P> 当一个女人婚姻出现危机时,会如饥似渴地希望找到另一伴侣来填补空虚和惶恐。充满新鲜刺激并且无拘无束的外遇,会令她们仿佛重回少女时代。这时的女性往往分不清是激情还是真爱。</P>* K0 o4 |' [2 d! g3 b4 L# |
<P> 婚姻其实是一种“习惯”,要维持这种“习惯”并使之不能有“惰”性,是一个很难掌握的尺度。在婚姻中“永远拥有”如果不被“熟视无睹”、“无须重视”所取代,那么,婚姻也许会像憧憬的一样美好。无论男人和女人,都要警惕婚姻中的惰性,相互沟通、充满激情才会维系彼此的吸引。 </P><A href="http://www.souod.com/"><FONT color=#810081><搜得健康网,专业健康知识分享,为你健康保驾护航></FONT></A>) p' L, K, H) P6 S9 D0 P
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